In this valley where I live, there are trees, rocks, ditches, and cliffs—but they're not everywhere. When the fog's in the valley, I can't see where the hazards are, so I can't avoid them. But if I can come into contact with reality, I can see there's a path I can walk that's going to be okay. I just have to stay in touch with what's real to avoid the problems and obstacles.

Heather Matthews joins me to talk about healthy male sexuality.

How to get clear on your parents.