Rebuild your Relationship
Roseville
Couples
Counseling
James Christensen LMFT
Call/Text 916-292-8920
300 Harding Blvd Roseville CA
Do you feel discouraged and disconnected?
Are you tired of walking on eggshells?
Are you struggling to communicate?
It’s time to make a change
It’s time to feel heard and understood
It’s time to be wanted and desired
It’s time to stop fighting and start communicating
Your first session is free
There’s no risk and no commitment
You can attend in-person or online
Are you ready to take action?
What People
are Saying:
“James has saved my marriage in a lot of ways. He gave me advice that was just what I needed to hear. I have tried to implement everything he has told me and it’s made all the difference.”
-BR, Loomis CA
“James is the couples therapist I wish I'd had before, during, and after my marriage.”
-MG, East Bay CA
James’ deep understanding of relationship dynamics, combined with his compassionate approach, makes him a highly effective therapist. I have seen firsthand how his work positively transforms couples, helping them build stronger, more meaningful connections. I highly recommend James to anyone seeking a dedicated and highly skilled couples therapist.
-JB, Auburn CA
James is an awesome therapist! He is someone who has a perfect blend of compassion and challenging that every great couples therapist must have!
-CF, Sacramento CA
If you are seeking transformational marriage counseling in Roseville, give James a call.
-KV, Santa Cruz CA
James is an incredible therapist. He really brings great ideas and concepts to help you process the situation at hand. When I asked for feedback, it was challenging and so helpful. I am so grateful to know him, and have his help in my journey.
-AB. Lincoln CA
My Story
My wife and I were on our way to Air Force pilot training when the towers fell on September 11th, 2001. Life in the military changed that day, and our marriage suffered. We fell out of love almost as fast as we had fallen in love. We started to feel anxious around each other, and our communication fell apart.
It took us a long time to find effective marriage therapy. We spent years working with counselors who weren’t very helpful. We kept looking until we found someone who helped us build the relationship we want to have. We learned that some marriage therapists are much better than others.
Our marriage isn’t perfect, but it’s so much better than it used to be. Effective marriage therapy was life-changing for me. I decided to become a marriage therapist because I wanted to share that gift with others.
My Approach
Relationships repair is about changing behavior, not words. I know how hard it is to feel trapped in a difficult marriage, and I know how to make things better.
I will talk straight to you. I deal with deception and manipulation as it happens.
I will help you feel safe in your relationship. We will work on communication and conflict resolution, starting with your first session. You will leave every session knowing what you can do to make your relationship better.
Your First Session is Free
I take an unusual approach to relationship therapy, and I want you to experience it before you have to pay. I think relationship therapy should be a “try before you buy” experience, because it is quite difficult to find a therapist who is a good fit. I don’t want you to come into my office for the first time worried about wasting your money.
I want relationship therapy to be a “try before you buy” experience. It’s hard to find good marriage therapist, and I don’t want you worry about wasting your money.
Questions and Answers
How long does it take?
Most couples reach a point where they feel safe talking to each other after about ten hours of therapy. Sexual problems, in-law problems, and severe trauma often take longer.
How much does it cost?
Your first session is free, and additional sessions cost $250. Most couples start communicating better after four or five sesssions. After that, it’s a question of far you want to go.
Do you accept insurance?
I don’t accept insurance. Some of my clients receive out-of-network reimbursement through their medical insurance, and some pay with health savings accounts.
Why do you focus on couples?
I think that committed adult relationships are the primary driver of human growth and development. Couples counseling is more effective than individual counseling, even in terms of personal growth and development.
What makes you different from other marriage therapists?
I’m more direct and results-oriented than most counselors. To me, therapy is like dance class: you should be dancing better at the end of a therapy session than you were at the beginning. I follow a three-step process:
What do you want to change in your relationship?
What obstacles stand in your way?
What are you going to do about those obstacles?
Why is your first session free?
Most therapists offer a free fifteen-minute consultation, but I don’t think that’s enough time to figure out whether we’re a good fit. I want to have enough time to show you how I can help.
Do you work with Christian couples?
Yes, your faith is welcome here.
Can you help us resolve sexual problems?
Yes. Every relationship will eventually encounter sexual problems, and I can help you work through them.
Do I have to talk about my childhood?
No, but it probably will come up at some point. We learn about human relationships as children, and most of what we learn doesn’t work well in adult relationships. The only shortcut I have found on the path to personal growth is getting clear on what your parents were really like.
Do you offer online therapy and coaching?
I offer online therapy in California and online coaching worldwide. I also offer multi-day intensive relationship therapy to couples who travel to Roseville from out of state.
What is your professional education and training?
Master’s Degree in Psychology from the Western Institute for Social Research, Berkley CA, 2021
EMDR Trauma Therapy with Philip Manfield, 2022
Accelerated Resolution Therapy with Cathy Long, 2022
Gottman Marriage Therapy Level 1 and Level 2, 2022
Generative Trance Therapy with Steve Gilligan, 2023
Crucible Relationship Therapy with Natalie Westera and Lacy Stump, 2024
Crucible Relationship Therapy with Barbara Fairfield, 2024